Bartender shares how the way she's treated has changed since gaining weight.Cassidy Lane (@body_positive_bartender) responded to another TikTok user who asked people with "pretty privilege" to share their worldviews.Lane described herself as "someone who *had* pretty privilege and is now fat".“I work in the service industry, right, I’m a bartender, and the way you look influences it a lot, whether that’s tips or how people treat you," she said.Lane said her whole life "changed" when she gained weight while receiving help for her eating disorder.She used to think people were "nice" before her treatment, but they've been rude to her lately.“People don’t even look you in the eye anymore," she said.
“They’re not nice to you".She said that left her feeling "hopeless.
Like, am I ever going to be worth more than my looks?" she asked.The video has garnered nearly 7 million views, and the message has resonated with other users.Lane responded to a commenter who asked what she looked like "before" by saying it's a pretty common question but still a "hurtful" one."I am who I am today, and that's all you need to know about me," she said